#semicolonproject416

a semicolon is a powerful grammatical tool: it shows there was a potential to quit writing, but the author chose to keep moving forward.

a semicolon is a powerful grammatical tool: it shows there was a potential to quit writing, but the author chose to keep moving forward.

a semicolon is a continuation of a thought, where one could previously ended.

a semicolon is a a symbol that you could have stopped fighting, but you’re still here.

a semicolon is going to unite thousands this week.

last year, the semicolon project was born.

a group of people got together and tweeted out a simple black and white poster, asking anyone who wanted to draw a semicolon on his wrist, to show support.

the responses were overwhelming.

the goal was to have “anyone who self harms, is suicidal, depressed, has anxiety, is unhappy, going through a broken heart, just lost a loved one, etc.” draw a semicolon on her wrist.

one year later, it’s still that simple.

#semicolonproject416

#semicolonproject416

 

on wednesday, april 16th, draw a semicolon on your wrist.

that’s it.

draw a semicolon.

no flash facebook status, no bright colors:

just a little semicolon on the inside of your wrist.

by drawing a semicolon, you’re proving you are the author of your own life and where your sentence could have ended, you decided to keep going.

you decided to keep writing your story.

i decided to keep writing my own story.

the author could have ended, but chose not to. the author is you and the sentence is your life.

the author could have ended, but chose not to. the author is you and the sentence is your life.

by drawing a semicolon on your wrist, this wednesday, you’re showing support for a community larger than yourself.

you’re showing support to the boy in your language class.

you’re showing support to your boss at work.

you’re showing support for yourself.

take a stand with me and participate in the semicolon project this week.

if you do participate, tweet a picture to @RecoveryBeauty, include #semicolonproject416 and i’ll retweet it.

let’s come together on wednesday.

let’s become a stronger community.

you are beautiful.

you deserve to be the author of your life.

“anorexia: breaking the silence” a documentary preview

eating disorders have one characteristic in common.

no, it’s not the weight loss.

no, it’s not “a teenage disease.”

eating disorders are silent killers. 

according to neda, eating disorders kill 4.0 percent of those with anorexia, 3.9 percent of those with bulimia and a staggering 5.2 percent with an eating disorder not otherwise specified (ednos.)

think about it: five out of every 100 people will die because of an eating disorder.

five will die because they chose to remain silent.

because they chose to not speak up.

i’m here to change that.

i’m here to tell my story.

a few months ago, i published a piece called “refeeding syndrome: my story” and it took off.

i was astonished to see how many people viewed and connected with my story.

i’m back to tell the entire thing, but this time, as a documentary.

director and youtuber, celia werner approached me about producing a piece on my struggles with anorexia and decision to pursue recovery.

i was nervous to show my face at first, but felt the project could reach people in a way my blog never could.

the project is done.

the story has been told.

the face on the camera is mine.

in the coming weeks, my story will be published in segments and i’ll further explain my thoughts in writing.

here’s the sneak peek of the upcoming special: “anorexia: breaking the silence”

you are beautiful.

you deserve to break the silence.

back from newsday.com

newsday and newsday.com are publications in the new york metropolitan area. i was a writer for the "towns" section.

newsday and newsday.com are publications in the new york metropolitan area. i was a writer for the “towns” section.

hey everyone!

thank you so much for checking in and not totally forgetting about my page.

as some of you know, i’m a journalism major in college. i recently just finished an internship withe the publication “newsday,” which i loved!

i was published numerous times and i got some really valuable hands-on experience.

unfortunately, i was so busy, i wasn’t able to regularly post.

but have no fear- i’m back!

i’m in collaboration with a director about a documentary on my own battle with anorexia.

it’s almost finished and i’ll be posting it as a series in the coming weeks.

stay tuned for a sneak peak next week.

you are beautiful.

you deserve to know that.

new year’s thoughts

many thanks, emi

many thanks,
emi

as the year comes to a close, i would like to thank everyone who has helped beautiful recovery take off.

what began as a school project, has launched into a global connection of almost 3,000 strong.

i’m so honored to have viewers from all over the world and such a wonderful support system.

your comments, retweets, favorites, pins and shares mean more to me than you know.

you have helped this nyc girl stay strong.

and for that, i’m eternally grateful.

as 2014 begins in just a few days, let’s work together to make this year the best we’ve ever had.

let’s work to encourage each other and be better together.

let’s be better for ourselves.

you are beautiful.

you deserve to know i appreciate you.

after thanksgiving thoughts and fears

thanksgiving was this past thursday, for americans.

my family loves the holiday because everyone comes together.

my friends love the holiday because they get to go home for the holiday.

i used to love the holiday before the eating disorder.

now it just scares me.

thanksgiving stresses me out.

it’s that simple.

it’s the one day when it’s acceptable to gorge yourself.

it’s the one day when everyone stares at you and watches you eat, even more closely.

it’s the one day a year where i almost change my mind about recovery every year.

guaranteed.

i found this video on youtube which describes the “post-thanksgiving” feeling perfectly.

does this sound familiar:

you wear loose clothes, so no one can se the weight you’ll gain.

you inspect your body “pre-meal” and “post-meal” to see if the food made any visible change.

for days afterwards you feel bloated and convince yourself it’s noticeable to everyone around you.

if any of this sounds like you, you’re not alone.

whether you’re currently suffering from an eating disorder, in recovery, or out of recovery:

you aren’t alone.

thanksgiving is a challenge for everyone affected by the disease.

however, it’s a wonderful opportunity to show loved ones how much progress you’ve made towards recovery.

by making an attempt to eat, you’re proving your victory over anorexia, bulimia and ednos.

it takes more than one meal to visibly gain weight.

know that partaking in a holiday meal will not make you appear different.

i promise.

i have to remind myself of that very idea every time there’s a big dinner.

your family and friends love you and will not be judging you on what you eat.

odds are they’ll probably be pleased to see you making an attempt.

i always worried my family would think i was “healthy” if i ate food on thanksgiving.

“healthy” was the biggest fear i had in regards to other people’s opinion.

for those of you with the same concern i had: one meal will not change people’s opinion of you.

however, it might cause them to have more respect for you.

and that’s never a bad thing.

for those of you who celebrated thanksgiving, i hope you had a lovely holiday.

if you’ve been struggling, know you are growing stronger and healing is a process. what seemed difficult this year, might not be as hard next year.

for those of you who did not celebrate thanksgiving, i’m rooting for you this holiday season.

we can do this together and have the best winter together.

you are beautiful.

you deserve to not worry about holiday meals.

it’s okay to eat

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somedays are easier than others.

somedays you feel like you can’t go on.

somedays you want to forget recovery and go back to your old habits.

here’s a friendly reminder for those tricky times:

it’s okay to eat.

food is not the enemy, the disease is.

show your eating disorder who’s boss.

you are beautiful.

you deserve gentle reminders.

10 myths about eating disorders & recovery

you check your stomach, your collar bones, your thighs to make sure the food hasn't caused a visible weight gain.

you check your stomach, your collar bones, your thighs to make sure the food hasn’t caused a visible weight gain.

we all have preconceived ideas about basically everything.

including eating disorders.

maybe before you, or someone you know, was diagnosed, you didn’t realize the mental disorder to its full extent.

i know i didn’t.

i always pictured skeletons that never ate and became thin over a period of weeks. then they were fed “normal food” and bounced right back.

wrong. so wrong.

 

here are 10 common myths regarding eating disorders and recovery, challenged:

 

1. “this is just a phase.”

this is not a phase. an eating disorder is a mental illness which is just as serious as any other illness.

today, people have a better chance at surviving from cancer than an eating disorder.

that’s frightening to me.

diseases don’t just “go away” magically, treatment is needed.

 

2. “developing an eating disorder was your choice.”

no one wakes up one morning and thinks to herself:

“i think today’s the day i’m going to become bulimic!”

eating disorders are a result of a chemical imbalance in one’s brain.

this makes it totally and completely out of control.

 

everyday you check to see if you've lost weight. do those pants fit any looser? have you gone down a size?

everyday you check to see if you’ve lost weight. do those pants fit any looser? have you gone down a size?

3. “it’s only about becoming skinny.”

this is a stereotype that particularly bothers me.

there are hundreds of types of the flu that people can get every year.

the flu is an illness.

an eating disorder is an illness, too.

there’s no one reason someone develops the disorder and it’s definitely not all about being thin.

 

4. “anorexia is the only real eating disorder.”

i wish i could have every bulimic in the world knock on the doors of people who believe this and smack them in the face.

yes, anorexia is a very real disease.

but so is bulimia, e.d.n.o.s., compulsive eating, b.d.d., binge eating disorder and pica, only to name a few.

many people suffering from one of these disorders show symptoms of multiple others.

that would be impossible if anorexia was the only one.

 

5. “eating disorders are a disease for teenage girls.”

this particular statement breaks my heart especially because it only sheds light on the struggles of one kind of group.

for those of you who aren’t aware, i have a twitter @RecoveryBeauty which is closely tied with my blog.

not only are my followers from around the world but they are people from all ages, races and genders.

i have talked to 17 year old boys from the UK and a 52 year old woman from the Uniter States, both suffering with the same disorder and the same symptoms.

just like there is no one type of eating disorder, there is no one kind of person susceptible to this disease.

 

you dream of food. you think about food. your reality is a constant battle with starving and binging.

you dream of food. you think about food. your reality is a constant battle with starving and binging.

6. “anorexics never eat.”

yes they do.

here’s something about the disorder that is commonly overlooked:

people with eating disorders are ashamed of their physical appearance and are ashamed to eat in public, yet they do eat in secret.

if you have an eating disorder, you’re still alive.

you’ve been eating, just not to the full caloric intake you should be.

 

7. “if you look healthy or overweight, you can’t have an eating disorder.”

this makes me the most angry of all.

i personally know people, and have talked to so many more, who are classified as “healthy” or “overweight/obese” and they are suffering from an eating disorder just as real as someone who weighs 90 lbs.

in an earlier post, i describe in great detail my own struggle with anorexia.

i had been struggling with the disease for almost two years until anyone noticed because i still looked healthy.

it wasn’t until i was under 108 lbs was i officially classified as “underweight.”

the charts and scales aren’t able to measure what the mind is doing.

there is no cookie cutter image for an eating disorder.

 

8. “recovery is fast.”

i’d love it if anyone currently trying to recover or fully recovered would comment with how long the process is taking/took.

recovery is a battle.

that’s the best way to say it.

it’s filed with ups and downs, retraining your brain and body to do something as “simple” as eat, learning to love yourself and so much more.

you didn’t get to the point where recovery was needed in a day, it takes years.

 

but you see a different image: a plate defined by numbers and percentages.

but you see a different image: a plate defined by numbers and percentages.

9. “learning to eat again is easy.”

please check out #8 because it’s very relevant.

learning to eat may seem easy but it’s definitely harder than it sounds.

just how many people recover from eating disorders? recent statistics are rather shocking:

50% of people make a full recovery.

30% of people make a partial recovery.

20% of people do not recover at all and relapse back to their old ways.

try telling the other half it’s easy.

trust me, if they were attempting recovery, they wanted it.

 

10. “you will always have an eating disorder.”

will you always have the memories of the disorder?

yes.

do these memories have to continue to control your every move?

no.

you are more than a mental illness.

you are more than another statistic.

you are more than this life.

recovery is possible.

it’s a hard fight, but so many people have gone before you and won.

for more information on recovery, please visit the National Eating Disorders Association.

you are beautiful.

you deserve to be more than a myth.

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